ROM 14/11/2008

OMG.. back to office again so sianzzz... and i feel like vomiting now already.
Do this and that wah kau... feel like getting another more relaxing job.. sooo many things to do whenever i come back from leave. and jansson is leaving this week which i dun have pple to help me check if got stock in warehouse all tt or not. Haiz... getting more sianzz and tired everyday.


Spend quite a lot of money recently. ROM, my clothes, my makeup .. hongbao all that didnt really claim back. DD spend a lot as well..

Everything from ROM venue, Solemnizer, florist, my dress, my makeup/hairdo, everything we did by ourselves. Seriously for the past 2 weeks we didnt even get to rest. everyday there is something that we must do. And also seeing my gynae.

Went to ROM on 12/11/08 early in the morning. We went to eat prata first cos not open.
After that 830 went up to ROM and quite a no of pple. We took our number and waited. There got a video clip for us to watch. Teach us family values. Our turn came and we proceed to this indian woman. She assure everything is correct and then pass us a paper to swear infront of her. Quite weird la.. cos we sit down and put our right hand up and swear quickly haha. DD so many mistakes and i realli quickly read through. The indian woman know everything by heart.. she just repeat whatever we gonna say.

Then she pass us all the documents for the solemnizer. luckily she didnt need any divorce documents. We have a fax copy but dunno can not anyway she didnt even ask anything for it.

After tt went home and sleep. I clean up our room while DD pack.

Went to exchange car with Gram.. talk talk and he ask me if our ROM tomorrow .. i said no its on friday.. he say congrats and kiss me on my cheek.. hehe...

Early morning the next day, Wai Mun reach at 345. so DD rush to woodlands checkpoint to fetch him and waited for his parents to come as well. Told wai mun that im pregnant as he ask how come so fast ROM. He said no wonder so sudden.. but okay ah.. at last can hold baby.

DD parents reach quite late and realised that the stupid bus driver ask the whole bus to go down and walk. FIL cant walk properly and he have to walk such a long way.. i felt realli bad and DD felt he isnt filial. I wish that they didnt need to come all the way down here and we settle all these by ourselves. But my mom wont approve that.

They came home around 645 and FIL wasnt feeling good. So me and DD get prepared to go out eat and collect my dress. Wai mun sleep at our room. He paiseh i at the room and dun dare come in. Hehe..

After that we come back i bathe and we went to Bugis.. was suppose that i stay at home but DD v v tired so i just come back with them first as he dun need to fetch me to AMK.
Went to bugis walk walk the temple and they went to pray. Ate laksa half way.
Then went to Marina south pier and vivocity.

VIVOCITY SUCH A ASS and stupid management! We came in by the entrance at Giant. We shop around and when we are abt to leave.. the door states onli entrance but there is a security guard there.

We walk here and there for a exit but cant find. So we ask them to sit down first while me and DD went to search. We find up down left right there is no way we can go our carpark. And i fed up i know and i assure that we definately can go out by that entrance.
So we went back and we ask the security how we can go out. He said " Wait for pple come in then you can go out " Then WTF u put entrance only at the window.. stupid ass right.

We waited for an indian to come in while we quickly get the car. And we drive to the nearest carpark where they are. Went to fetch them and have to walk again.

CHANGE YR MANAGEMENT ASSHOLES!

Wasted about 1h doing so.

Went to orchard to wait for my mom to have dinner. Wait quite long and i can see DD father realli tired. MIL did tell me he last time not like tt.. he v healthy wan.. until the operation to his kidney and his leg sore so badly that needed hospitalization. Mom came and talk talk about us.

Ate and then Daniel came to fetch me and mom. DD fetch them home while he come out again to meet Waimun. He go meet his " female friend ". I wasnt pleased and ask him to go home early .
bathe and i slept immediately on my bed... super duper tired. Slept 2 hours but woke up at 3 plus cant sleep till 5 plus.. i miss DD and i miss my bed. lucky xiu xiu with me.

Btw, alien was at home when i came back, she said hello and i ignore her. Mom say eh nv say back ah.. i nv look at her i say hi. at the same time she say arent u going to say hi to me... HELL NO I DUN WISH TO.

14/11/08

Early morning wake up to bathe and wait for my makeup artist to come. Mommy help me to kiap kiap my hair. ( A bit sad though ) Wanted to eat but my makeup artist kind of early. She makeup and do my hair think only 2 hours. she was v fast but turn out v nice. too bad im fat la..

She rushing to the next venue so cant do for my mom. So mom quickly change and rush to let Yvonne do her hair.
DD came after a while and quickly change. DD help me wear everything. And rush home to pick the folks and off to Sembawang Country Club.

SHortly reach there, uncle simon come.. go out entertain and then Mr Fang come. All then came and they go walk walk. ask them come back at 2pm.
Then within 10 minutes, all came...

I missing 1 table. Daphne said she maybe heard wrongly. But cant add another table cos my guest are here. But i realli needed one and more chairs wont help.
After a while.. when my guest all filled up.. i still have my colleagues and there is no way i squeeze with other pple. So i ask lisa if can add one more table.

Luckily she was v nice and friendly. she help me to add one more immediately.
By the time Mariah they all arrive, at last everything was ok...

Mr eric wong came as well... but one v impt person was missing.. and that is my dearie Ms Serene Wong ..

I called many times to ask her hurry up.. i know she got held up cos of work..
Mr Wong said that can change MOH but i didnt want it i assure to mom that wait for another 5 mins..

I went out and finally she came. Bird wan to cry and i pull her back to wipe her tears..

Dear.. if you are seeing this... it is ok okay? Everything is over already although i realli panick at tt time la.. but no worry.. everything in good order.. hehe.

Mr Wong ask if we are ready and we rush to the stage. Said our vows... i was so nervous.. and also kept looking at bird.. scared she cry.. Face the pple and kiss... omg so paiseh..

V paiseh to George cos he kept asking tables if can sit here.. But was suppose he sit beside Murni. Didnt tell him where to sit.

Take food for my MIL and FIL. then DD take for mom.
Was walking here and there to entertain.. and pok champagne.. didnt get to eat until last minute.
Not bad the food.. quite nice.

It was raining and Murni ordered cab and bird george went out first. After a while one by one left.

i see Susan i dunno what to talk to her... i see her so awkwardly.. because of that call she gave. I sat there with her and i just tell her straight im ok.. and ask her dun worry.. she just smile and stare at me.. -_-...

I didnt knoe abt this until next day.. DD pass hongbao to Ah boy first.. and he said thank you thank you sorry cannot take 2 hand cos 1 holding flowers.

He pass to alien and she take and look away.. WITHOUT saying thank you or anything.. Mom saw and said to her nv say thank u ah.. after tt i think she didnt say anything or a mumble thank u... seriously feel like slapping her.

When abt to leave.. i pass my flowers to Mom.. she pass to alien..
i was abt to take photos.. she shouted at the door but im the other side...

" Arent u offering a bouquet to Mother Mary."
I was super angry and i told her " NO"
She shouted " NO, YOU SHOULD "

DD ask what she said i said just ignore her..



Haizz... make me pek chek...

All left and we left also i thank lisa for her efforts.. and i realli thank John for making the floral arrangements very nicely done. Though daphne forgotten 1 table which spoil my mood for a while.

Was suppose to give Mr Eric wong a packet but we said in the car and he said nvm nvm.. then he rush off..

We went back home and bathe... after a while, went to eat Fish steamboat.
Then went to my house a while while PIL talk talk with my mom and we play with the doggy.

After a while we have to go fetch PIL to take bus home.. Wait quite long cos they late.. and i super tired also.

When they in the bus.. i happen to see my FIL.. & he was waving frantically at me.. and i quickly wave back and MIL wave back too... At that moment i wanted to cry.. i look away... i was thinking i must take care of myself and my baby so that my FIL can hold my baby next yr.

After they left.. we fetch Wai mun to Clark Quay.. Boy and Su Ann wait for us there too..
Walk walk cos im going to sleep le... Super tired. We went to walk while we left Wai mun and his " female friend " there.

Went back to the car and find petrol.. i slept in the car immediately.
I heard they come in and DD explain to them that i realli tired cos i cant sleep the previous night.. Wai mun kept saying sorry sorry... kind of sleep walk when arrive home.. heard wai mun say sorry le.. i say no problem... heard from DD he kept apologizing and that if we come KL.. he will bring us whenever we want to go... whenever DD at Taiping.. Waimun will fetch him everywhere he wan to go even in the middle of the night.

Woke up the next day and went to give hongbao money to Mr Wong.. after that met Joanne at AMK hub to eat New york new york.. told her im pregnant and she so surprised.
Real or not?? hehe..

Went home a while at night met Waimun " female friend " again and eat at nearby coffeeshop for frog porriage. He went to female friend house.. hehehehe and we went home.. he later take mrt to go drink then take cab back to our place.

Yesterday fetch waimun to beach road.. went to eat breakfast. and then go his bus.. he msg us thx for all the hospitality, food, ma faness... and that to take care of me and his god son.. hehehe..
No problem no problem cos we go KL, we need him to fetch us around too.

After that exchange car with Gram and he kiss me again.. paiseh...


went home to sleeeeeepppppppppppppppppp... woke up and order pizza..


I thank everybody for coming down to my ROM.. a few pple pop out last minute but luckily everything ok. All the gifts.. they are superbly nice.. DD kept them already cos we are moving..
Pictures up soon..

I thank Waimun and Bird for being my maid of honour.. Sory to Bird that i stress her to hurry.
Thanks to all my Uncles, Aunties, Cousins, Godma and Godpa for coming.
Thanks to my colleagues.
Thanks to all RICO pple and Jack, jack gf. ( though her face like mmm not happy, heard DD she always like tt )

MAny many thanks to Lisa, Daphne , JOhn, Eric Wong, Vivian ( Makeup artist ) and Gram for lending us his car.

Of course, to my family and my parents in Law for coming all the way down. Next time no more for bus.. all will be flights for them.

And last but not least.. i cannot do all these without my beloved husband.. DD i love you so much and there are more things in the future we hav to overcome... look for house and waiting for our baby to come out..
All our problems are almost gone.. and we have come such a long way to be in the state where we are now... I love u so much DD...

A lot of pple quite shock i got married... all MSN me.. To think i like the fastest in my own group of friends.. But i still like so childish.. mature in the way a lot of things i count on myself to do.

Haizzz finally finish... Next move to Chong house and looking for our own house.

Btw, i have book my flight malaysian airline from 26 Jan to 3 Feb for chinese new year.. Now onli $700 include airport tax.. after this period it would be $200 plus already per ticket.. now $76

30 dec have to attend Waimun birthday at KL. so new year day wont b here.. hehe.. woo busy busy..